How do you respond to God when He wants to use you on behalf of a group? Nehemiah stopped, wept, repented for his people, prayed and fasted. Gideon questioned the LORD multiple times, and even accused God of abandoning His people.
Unintentional Damage
My jobs as the Research & Care Coordinator and the Cross Cultural Guide both deal with a variety of sensitive issues. Too often people are hurt by misfire, friendly fire, or even collateral damage. If you are an active believer, living in step with the Spirit, you know what it’s like to feel on the “frontlines” as though you were in a spiritual war because you are. Paul reminds the believers of his time to put on the armor of God and to fight like a good soldier. We must remember who our enemy is and who our family is. Too often when someone in the family says something that we don’t understand, instead of assuming the best, we turn to attack each other – especially when we are speaking about sensitive subjects like race.
Example: I recently heard a white staff guy say that when people of color speak about wanting to lead in their culture, that he hears “I can only lead if you (white people) leave”. He was angry and hurt and felt as though he isn’t wanted and is being pushed out as we talk about diversity and the need for others at the table. This is a lie from the enemy, not from our family. God wants all of His children to be part of His work so that He may be glorified through the unique skills, gifts, and perspectives of each person in the body of Christ. Each person plays a part, and on this side of eternity, we also represent people groups as we play that part.
Nehemiah saw the shame of his people, not just the destruction caused by others and he asked God for forgiveness of his people after confessing their sins. He then went on to rebuild his city and he wasn’t seeking the revenge of his people but rather the strengthening of them. As a family, we need to see when the destruction around us, in our communities, is the work of the enemy and focus our energy toward rebuilding each other in love. If we have hurt someone unknowingly in our communication, confess & apologize and seek to speak more lovingly.